"unbeknownst to them, these two make a profound mark on their environment. their relationship is about power, though not of the worldly kind that builds empires and conquers mountains rather, it is something more personal that these two bring out in each other. this power becomes not only a symbol of but a reason for the deep inward connection here. with the relationship's support, these two can more courageously express who they are and who they want to be.

the quality of the X and Y connection is often most apparent in their love affairs. this love is more often more spiritual or platonic than physical, although sexual passion cannot be ruled out. problems of communication arise, since Y may periodically go incommunicado, isolating themselves in their own world, removed from both the stresses of life and the anxious queries of their partner. they may also be made insecure by the X need to go out the relationship for comfort or affection, a step they tend to regard as an act of betrayal.

marriages are emotionally rich and may work, although on the whole they lack the stability to hold together. X and Y are square to each other... Although that translates in this combination as nervousness, worry or depression rather than overt conflict, these passive states are actually much harder for X to deal with than outright anger or aggression. despite their difficulty in interacting, these spouses may have a hard time letting go of their marriage, which gives them so much in the way of growth of self expression.

friendships may be a good bet, but can lack intensity and have a tendency to drift...

advice: don't be afraid to push a bit harder. try to even out emotional moods. keep lines of communication open. beware of compulsion to withdraw."

















it's like i read it out of a book or something.